SIGNS OF IMMATURITY IN MARRIAGE FOR MEN:
1. Rejecting food when there's an issue:
Mr husband, you gave your wife money for
food and after it was prepared you refused
to eat because you are angry. It's one of the greatest signs of
immaturity, it's time to grow up! You should not even abandon
your home for any reason. You could go somewhere when
angry but ensure that you don't allow it to linger unnecessarily
because that is enough for the devil to build on even though
some women can be really troublesome.
2. Telling your wife severally that you are the head:
May I let you know that even when your wife disobeys/
disrespect you she still knows that you are the head. You need
not shout or scream it daily. Or do we need to get you a slot
on CNN? It's important for you to know when and how to be
firm and put your feet down over issues, however don't
become a nagging husband just to prove that you are the
head.
3. Issuing threats:
beating, verbally abusing
your wife, issuing threats of divorce or
bragging about marrying another wife does
not make you a man. An EMPTY barrel makes the loudest
noise. Your strength is in your ability to tame your tongue and
control your fist. When she is acting her "childish woman" part,
play the "matured man."
4. Reporting your wife to friends and family:
When your wife offends you, correct
and talk things through. You don't have to tell everyone about
her mistakes, that will paint her black and sell her cheap such
that you will not be able to redeem her back.
By the way, are you a reporter answer my question ?
5. Keeping malice:.
is it not funny to know that some men keep malice? Some of
them even nag, criticise, abuse and call their wives names in
public. It may make you look like a "big boy" who's in control
but you are not going to gain anything good from it, your home
will only be a den of insults and confrontations.
6. Not helping with house chores:
I must say here that it is the sole responsibility of a woman to
tend and manage a home when she chooses to be a full time
house wife.
However, it's not a bad thing if a man lends a helping hand
when necessary. Watching football with newspaper in your
hand every evening, not caring how stressful the house chores
are will only increase the pressure on your wife and if you truly
care you'll help, just checking on her while busy could
encourage and sooth her, this also makes you a good
example to the kids especially the boys. Some men don't even
say "thank You" to their wives after eating, all they do is
compare her with other women. It's a shame that after having
3-4 kids some men cannot change a simple diaper or
prepare cereal meals; a big shame.
My point?
A REAL man is a pillar of support to his wife, not a hole of
depression.
1. Rejecting food when there's an issue:
Mr husband, you gave your wife money for
food and after it was prepared you refused
to eat because you are angry. It's one of the greatest signs of
immaturity, it's time to grow up! You should not even abandon
your home for any reason. You could go somewhere when
angry but ensure that you don't allow it to linger unnecessarily
because that is enough for the devil to build on even though
some women can be really troublesome.
2. Telling your wife severally that you are the head:
May I let you know that even when your wife disobeys/
disrespect you she still knows that you are the head. You need
not shout or scream it daily. Or do we need to get you a slot
on CNN? It's important for you to know when and how to be
firm and put your feet down over issues, however don't
become a nagging husband just to prove that you are the
head.
3. Issuing threats:
beating, verbally abusing
your wife, issuing threats of divorce or
bragging about marrying another wife does
not make you a man. An EMPTY barrel makes the loudest
noise. Your strength is in your ability to tame your tongue and
control your fist. When she is acting her "childish woman" part,
play the "matured man."
4. Reporting your wife to friends and family:
When your wife offends you, correct
and talk things through. You don't have to tell everyone about
her mistakes, that will paint her black and sell her cheap such
that you will not be able to redeem her back.
By the way, are you a reporter answer my question ?
5. Keeping malice:.
is it not funny to know that some men keep malice? Some of
them even nag, criticise, abuse and call their wives names in
public. It may make you look like a "big boy" who's in control
but you are not going to gain anything good from it, your home
will only be a den of insults and confrontations.
6. Not helping with house chores:
I must say here that it is the sole responsibility of a woman to
tend and manage a home when she chooses to be a full time
house wife.
However, it's not a bad thing if a man lends a helping hand
when necessary. Watching football with newspaper in your
hand every evening, not caring how stressful the house chores
are will only increase the pressure on your wife and if you truly
care you'll help, just checking on her while busy could
encourage and sooth her, this also makes you a good
example to the kids especially the boys. Some men don't even
say "thank You" to their wives after eating, all they do is
compare her with other women. It's a shame that after having
3-4 kids some men cannot change a simple diaper or
prepare cereal meals; a big shame.
My point?
A REAL man is a pillar of support to his wife, not a hole of
depression.