5 THINGS THAT ARE NOT THE SAME AS GOOD CHARACTER
1) GENEROSITY
A Man or Woman can be quite good at giving, they can be GENEROUS, and at the same time, DANGEROUS.
Do not be fooled, that he is always subbing for you, spending on you lavishly, that she is always sending you airtime doesn't mean they have character..
2) GOOD DRESS SENSE
Aunty, Suit is not Anointing.
Uncle, Long skirt is not Fear of God.
Just because a lady doesn't MAKEUP doesn't mean she can't MAKE TROUBLE .
Some ladies use MASCARA to cover bad CHARACTER
Be Wise. Avoid "I thought he's born again", don't thought anything. WATCH and PRAY.
3) PROFESSION/POSITION
He's a Marriage Counselor...
He's a Youth Pastor...
She's a Nurse..
Be Wise.
TITLE and MANTLE are two different things
4) BEING BEAUTIFUL/HANDSOME
I've come to discover that some people have what we call "innocent face" or what we call "church face"
They look harmless, and God fearing. You'd never suspect them of anything.
But I've also come to discover that the popular mantra "looks can be deceiving" is not a joke.
5) GIFTS
A person's abilities or capabilites by virtue of nature (talent) or gifts of the spirit, are different from their abilities by virtue of the new birth and transformation (fruits of the Spirit.)
Hear the Master of Wisdom
Matthew 7:20 "Wherefore by their FRUITS ye shall know them."
FRUITS of the Spirit are the hallmark of a true Christian and a Husband/Wife Material. .
Not GIFTS.
Don't be deceived.
Don't be in a hurry.
Platonic Friendship First, Courtship next. Check for Character before you say I DO.
Remember, Marriage is not a Talent Audition.
1) GENEROSITY
A Man or Woman can be quite good at giving, they can be GENEROUS, and at the same time, DANGEROUS.
Do not be fooled, that he is always subbing for you, spending on you lavishly, that she is always sending you airtime doesn't mean they have character..
2) GOOD DRESS SENSE
Aunty, Suit is not Anointing.
Uncle, Long skirt is not Fear of God.
Just because a lady doesn't MAKEUP doesn't mean she can't MAKE TROUBLE .
Some ladies use MASCARA to cover bad CHARACTER
Be Wise. Avoid "I thought he's born again", don't thought anything. WATCH and PRAY.
3) PROFESSION/POSITION
He's a Marriage Counselor...
He's a Youth Pastor...
She's a Nurse..
Be Wise.
TITLE and MANTLE are two different things
4) BEING BEAUTIFUL/HANDSOME
I've come to discover that some people have what we call "innocent face" or what we call "church face"
They look harmless, and God fearing. You'd never suspect them of anything.
But I've also come to discover that the popular mantra "looks can be deceiving" is not a joke.
5) GIFTS
A person's abilities or capabilites by virtue of nature (talent) or gifts of the spirit, are different from their abilities by virtue of the new birth and transformation (fruits of the Spirit.)
Hear the Master of Wisdom
Matthew 7:20 "Wherefore by their FRUITS ye shall know them."
FRUITS of the Spirit are the hallmark of a true Christian and a Husband/Wife Material. .
Not GIFTS.
Don't be deceived.
Don't be in a hurry.
Platonic Friendship First, Courtship next. Check for Character before you say I DO.
Remember, Marriage is not a Talent Audition.